Questions
WHAT IS A BAT MITZVAH?
A Bat Mitzvah is a Jewish ceremony for a girl, typically held when she turns 12 or 13. The phrase “Bat Mitzvah” literally means “daughter of the commandment.” It signifies that Jillian will be responsible for her own actions and for observing Jewish laws and traditions. During the service Jillian will help lead prayers and read from the weekly Torah portion for the first time as a Bat Mitzvah. This is the central and significant part of the ceremony. Jillian will also explain the Torah portion with a personal reflection that demonstrates her understanding of the text and its relevance to modern life.
WHAT SHOULD I WEAR FOR THE BAT MITZVAH SERVICE?
The religious service will be held in the synagogue. As a courtesy to all guests, we kindly request you dress modestly out of respect for the sanctuary. We ask that women have their shoulders covered during the service and a kippah (head covering) will be available for all male guests as they enter the synagogue.
WHAT TIME SHOULD I ARRIVE FOR THE BAT MITZVAH SERVICE?
The invitation says 9:30AM, but congregants start to arrive around 10:00AM. Jillian will begin leading around 10:15AM. The service is usually 2 hours from that point on. The Kiddush (Hebrew term for luncheon) follows the service and will last about an hour.
WHAT SHOULD I WEAR FOR THE RECEPTION?
The evening reception at the William Aiken House is cocktail attire.